Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder is a constellation of symptoms which results from the experience of extreme trauma. Traditionally, it’s been seen as something which arises after exposure to warfare, natural disasters, motor vehicle accidents or physical assault. Due to the recent events in Iraq and Afghanistan, the condition is becoming better-known, with trusted protocols for the […]
You probably already know this: there is no diet out there that actually works. Maybe you’ve tried one or more of them, and when they failed you blamed yourself. Well, it’s time to let yourself off the hook. Dieting, by it’s nature, can’t possibly work. Dieting merely deals with a symptom (over-eating) and not with […]
I disagree with the disease model of addiction and with the idea that people are powerless against their addictions. Whether someone is an alcoholic, drug-addict, or compulsive eater, gambler or shopper, addiction is not a disease but a choice, albeit a dysfunctional one. Let me explain: In my professional experience, the 12-step model, which has […]
Ruthless Compassion is a philosophy which brings together two seemingly-contradictory concepts. It combines the loving-kindness of compassion with the fierceness of the warrior, and this is exactly why it works. Many of us today misunderstand compassion as an attitude of “niceness,” where we feel obliged to take care of others at our own expense; tolerate […]
There are a few basic truths which you should be aware of if you want a successful relationship. Having this knowledge will enable you to transform a mediocre relationship into something deeply satisfying. Although these truths are founded in common-sense, it’s as though they’ve been forever locked away in a vault for only the lucky […]
Friendship, like many other things in life, often has an expiration date. There are some friends who stay with us for our entire life, but there are also many friends who come into our life and stay there only for a certain amount of time. Through our lives, we grow and change. Ideally, our […]
If you find yourself struggling in the workplace it could be because you’re bringing to your job some incorrect assumptions and expectations. Many people unknowingly bring their emotional baggage to work and if they aren’t careful, this can turn a job into a nightmare. The workplace has a number of elements: your colleagues, your boss […]
You probably think of the workplace as the arena for carrying out tasks, earning a living and with luck, experiencing the fulfillment of a job well done. In reality, it’s the place where people spend a lot of time playing out complex and often counter-productive dynamics with their colleagues, supervisors and employees. Understanding how your […]
Empowerment is a concept that many people don’t seem to fully understand. Here are a few thoughts about what it means, and how being more empowered can improve the quality of your life and the lives of those around you. Empowerment isn’t about being able to control things; it’s about making conscious choices which […]
People who encountered boundary violations during their childhood struggle with establishing and maintaining good boundaries in their adult lives. When boundaries were crossed, through the experience or witnessing of either emotional, physical or sexual abuse, it becomes very confusing as to where normal boundaries should be set, and what to expect from others around these […]
